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Search Starts It, Referral Still Wins It: What the NAR 2025 Profile Means for Agent Visibility
Search is the most common single first step in the home-buying process, cited by 41 to 47% of buyers between 2020 and 2025, but it is not how most buyers pick a specific agent. Referral (43%) and repeat business (18%) still decide who actually gets hired, and once a seller starts talking to agents, the process compresses fast: roughly 81% of sellers contact only one, and 80% hire the first one they speak with. That combination means an agent who is visible and trusted before the first call captures a disproportionate share of both the search-driven and the referral-driven buyer, because there is usually no second interview to win back a weak first impression. This piece walks through the National Association of REALTORS 2025 data behind that finding and what it means for where visibility work should actually focus.
Search opens the search. It rarely closes the sale.
Between 2020 and 2025, 41 to 47% of buyers named looking online as their first step in the home-buying process, the single most common first move, according to the National Association of REALTORS 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers. Every buyer in that same study used the internet somewhere along the way, and 70% relied on a mobile device or tablet at some point. Search is, unambiguously, where the process begins.
What search does not do is replace the agent. In the same data, 88% of buyers purchased their home through an agent or broker. Digital discovery and human intermediation are complements here, not substitutes: buyers use search to orient themselves, then hand the actual transaction to a person they trust. An agent who treats search visibility as the whole job, rather than the opening move in a longer trust-building process, is solving only half the problem.
How the specific agent actually gets picked
If search opens the funnel, referral and repeat business close most of it. NAR's 2025 data shows 43% of buyers found their agent through a referral, and another 18% used an agent they had worked with before. Together, that is 61% of buyers arriving at their agent through a relationship rather than a cold discovery channel, more than any single digital-discovery method by a wide margin.
This is corroborated by the satisfaction data sitting just upstream of it. Among sellers, 86% said their agent provided a broad range of services, and 87% said they would likely recommend that agent again. The reputation signal in this industry is strong when the underlying work is good. The structural problem most agents have is not weak performance, it is that this genuine goodwill rarely gets captured anywhere a next buyer, or an AI engine summarizing local expertise, can actually read it.
The race is often over before the first conversation
The sharpest number in NAR's 2025 release is about speed, not channel. Roughly 81% of sellers contacted only one agent before hiring, and 80% hired the first agent they spoke with. There is, in the large majority of transactions, no shortlist and no second interview. The decision is made, functionally, before the phone call even happens, based on whatever impression the seller had already formed.
That reframes what "visibility" is actually for in this vertical. It is not primarily about winning a competitive pitch meeting. It is about being the name that already reads as credible, referral-worthy, and trustworthy at the exact moment someone decides to make that one call, whether the moment was triggered by a friend's recommendation, a Google search, or, increasingly, a question typed into an AI assistant.
Why this makes search-first-step and referral-decides both true, and both worth acting on
These two data points are sometimes presented as if they contradict each other, search-driven discovery versus relationship-driven selection, but NAR's data shows they operate on top of each other, not against each other. A buyer's early search shapes who ends up on their radar and what they believe about local agents generally. The actual hire then gets decided by referral, repeat business, or whichever name was already credible when the one call got made.
The practical implication is that visibility and reputation work are not two separate marketing tracks for an agent. They are the same track. The online presence a buyer or seller encounters, whether through a friend's recommendation prompting a Google search of the agent's name, or a cold search turning into a referral conversation later, has to already read as the deep, corroborated, trustworthy signal that wins a first-and-only contact, because for the large majority of sellers, that is the only contact there is going to be.
The evidence
Key findings, with their sources
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41 to 47% of buyers named searching online as their first step in the home-buying process between 2020 and 2025, the single most common first move; every buyer used the internet at some point, and 70% used a mobile device or tablet.
established National Association of REALTORS, 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, Nov. 2025.
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88% of buyers purchased their home through a real estate agent or broker.
established National Association of REALTORS, 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers.
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43% of buyers found their agent through a referral, and 18% used an agent they had worked with before on a prior transaction.
established National Association of REALTORS, 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, as summarized by BAM, "How Home Buyers and Sellers Find Their Agents in 2025," 2025.
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86% of sellers said their agent provided a broad range of services, and 87% said they would likely recommend that agent again.
established National Association of REALTORS, 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers.
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Roughly 81% of sellers contacted only one agent, and 80% hired the first agent they spoke with.
established National Association of REALTORS, 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, as reported via RESPA News and The Jamil Brothers.
Reference
Glossary
- First-and-only-contact bias
- The pattern documented in NAR's 2025 data where the large majority of sellers contact and hire only a single agent, meaning there is rarely a second interview to correct a weak first impression.
- Repeat business
- A prior client hiring the same agent again for a new transaction, distinct from a referral, which is a new client hired on someone else's recommendation.
Straight answers
Frequently asked questions
If search is the most common first step, why does referral matter more?
Search shapes who a buyer or seller becomes aware of, but NAR's 2025 data shows the actual hiring decision runs through referral (43%) and repeat business (18%) more than through any single digital-discovery channel. The two are not competing explanations, search opens the funnel, and relationship or reputation signals close it, which is exactly why online visibility has to reinforce the same credibility a referral would.
How many agents does the average seller actually interview?
Very few. Roughly 81% of sellers contact only one agent, and 80% hire the first agent they speak with, according to NAR's 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers. There usually is no shortlist of two or three candidates being formally compared.
Does this mean online marketing does not matter for real estate agents?
No, it means online marketing has to be aimed at the right target. Since most sellers make a first-and-only-contact decision, the goal of visibility work is to make sure the agent already reads as the credible, referral-worthy choice at the moment someone decides to make that one call, rather than trying to win a competitive multi-agent pitch that, for most sellers, never actually happens.
What should an agent do with this data practically?
Treat online presence, Google Business Profile, reviews, and AI-answer visibility as reputation infrastructure, not lead generation in isolation. Because the decision compresses to one contact for most sellers, the version of an agent that a search engine, an AI assistant, or a friend's Google search of their name surfaces needs to already carry the same weight a strong referral would.
Provenance
Sources
- National Association of REALTORS, 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, Nov. 2025 (established)nar.realtor
- BAM, "How Home Buyers and Sellers Find Their Agents in 2025," 2025, corroborating NAR primary data (established)
- RESPA News and The Jamil Brothers, secondary summaries of NAR 2025 first-and-only-contact data (established, secondary source)
Every figure above is attributed to a real, dated source and tagged with its evidence tier. Where a claim could not be verified to a primary source, it is not stated as fact.